Dr. Barb says,
. . . I like to take the mystery out of coming in for counseling and therapy. Firstly, it is important to know that sick people don’t come for therapy! It’s the healthy ones who realize that something in their lives is not working right and they could use some professional assistance.
When people come to my office, I generally start off by asking a lot of questions and taking a thorough history. This saves a great deal of time in the long run. It helps break the ice, and gives my clients and me a chance to get to know each other.
Therapy with adults is generally conducted as a respectful conversation. In many ways, I’m a mirror to my client’s inner world. Through reflective listening and questioning, the clients are able to see their difficulties “outside of themselves” and get a healthier perspective on things.
I believe that we have unique healing resources of our own. Part of my job is to help the client tap these for him or herself. I generally guide and steer the therapeutic conversation toward this end. Where needed, however, I am directive. All of my work is matched to the particular situation and needs.Therapy with children is conducted through their natural language of play.
The theory of therapy that I primarily use is that of Carl Jung.